Monday, April 27, 2020

30 Weeks with Number 10

On Friday I reached the wonderful marker of 30 weeks with our tenth baby! With this being number ten and in the last quarter of this pregnancy, I'm finding myself stopping more to cherish these little moments. Because life is a little slower right now with all that's going on in the world, God is giving me the reminder to stop, pause an enjoy these little moments that may never happen again.

Nothing is guaranteed in this life. In a flash everything can change.

It feels like life moves at breakneck speed. Sometimes it feels like just yesterday I found out I was pregnant!

But right now, while the world is just a little slower, I want to take time and enjoy this (even though this pregnancy has been very draining). I want to remember the movements. I want to cherish the moments I get to carry the life of and image bearer of God. I want to be thankful for the fatigue and heartburn that reminds me that, even though it's uncomfortable, is part of the joy of being a mama.

I'm grateful to be at 30 weeks. Every week is a miracle. Every moment is a miracle.

I'm anxious to meet this newest little one face to face. But right now I want to take in the joy of carrying this child inside and treasure these moments of pregnancy before the delivery comes.


Saturday, April 18, 2020

Confession: I'm Not Really Struggling

We're a month into the social distancing mandate both locally and nationally. It's been a strange month in many ways, but in others there isn't that much that's different. Not for us anyway.

It's been just over two years since we finally settled in Mableton after a long transition, and during that time we have done a lot at home. We've been homeschooling since our oldest was 2 and a half. We're a large family so we don't go that many places that often. The biggest changes have been not being able to meet with the church and not taking family trips to the stores to shop and learn together. We've really kept things quite simple.

So this last month has been a bit of fresh air in many ways. Don't get me wrong, I'm an extreme extrovert and I miss gathering with our people. But at the same time I've loved not having a reason to go anywhere. It's kind of nice being able to go quickly to the grocery store or take my time so I can adequately compare prices (when there are options to choose from at the store).

The Shelter at Home order being wide spread has also taken some of the pressure off our days and we're actually doing better! We've been able to disciple more intentionally. Everyone is working together to learn and get book work accomplished. Chores have been smoother. We've been getting outside everyday the weather allows to enjoy sunshine and mild exercise. Individual reading time has been reinstated. Creative expression has become more prevalent during our day with writing, drawing, LEGO building and cooking/baking. We're talking more about everything.

On top of the family growing together, Jim and I are working together more when he's home and because of the strangeness at the hospitals he has been home more! We've been working on marriage material, dreaming about ministry and blogging and seeking God's vision for our family. We have started another book and we're having intentional date nights in every week.

Personally, I have been seeing God more clearly as I'm studying the Old Testament with our church's reading plan and going through Revelation. Both are challenging me greatly and driving me to my knees even more. God is revealing my sin and showing me where I have been falling short. I've been praying more, looking for gratitude in the little things and enjoying being a mom more than I ever have. I've also been writing more and learning more. I'm writing blog posts, working on my book and have a virtual writing group that has been so much fun. Last week I was able to pray with a friend of ours who is preparing to return to Japan several times. I've had texts and sent texts. I'm learning how to be completely satisfied in God alone!

It's hard not being able to gather with the Body and worship together physically. But our pastors have done an amazing job streaming our Sunday corporate worship, even in their own struggles, and we've been able to use it to train our children in corporate worship decorum without bothering those around us. Even in the darkness, that has been a great light for us.

The kids have been a little antsy not going anywhere in a month. But they are growing in relationship with each other. There are more spats and squabbles, but it has been a time for growth and teaching, calling out sin and pointing our children to Jesus. The little ones have been demanding more attention, but they are learning to receive discipline and instruction with decreasing fight. They miss their friends, but they are growing in friendship with each other.

By God's grace this won't last forever. This virus will subside. We will be able to meet in large gatherings again. We will go to the grocery store, the park, museums or wherever we want to go to live life.

But also by God's grace we will never be the same. And that is a good thing.

Friday, April 17, 2020

The Daniel Plan

This book has been on our shelf for a few years after Jim's employer bought them for their employees and I've been meaning to read it. As part of looking into health information I decided to read it to know what it's teaching and how it compares to other eating plans out there so I can educate to the best of my ability.

Having already read other books, it was challenging to read this unbiased, which I tried desperately to do, but my review will come at it from a mixed view.

I have heard many good things about this plan throughout the years. I really appreciate the five essentials that they use to lay out their plan: faith, food, fitness, focus and friends. Anyone knows that this type of combination helps with the success of anything in life. They take a chapter to explain each of these in detail.

The Faith section had a some encouragement, but parts of it even left me discouraged. They also talk about promises out of context and did not do a great job of explaining the Gospel in this section. In fact, I don't remember it being clear that without Jesus none of the faith element works. Perhaps it was more than I realized, but I remember thinking many times "You can't say that." Without the true faith element, it doesn't work.

The food section I struggled with greatly. They immediately said they were a high carb diet, which was my assumption and while acknowledging you need good fats, I didn't see them incorporated well. This is a problem for pregnant and nursing women for sure and not at all good for children. If a long term diet is not workable in these stations I have a hard time with it. Since I have gestational diabetes I was looking at it from that angle as well and many of their meals I would have to tweak majorly to be able to eat. There are some recipes that I am excited to try though, which is a bonus.

The diet does have its merits and they have some great dishes in the back, but they were lacking in solid research. They also continually suggest Olive Oil for cooking but do not discuss proper temps to keep it from turning to a trans fat. Cornstarch was suggested in several dishes for thickening which I can't eat with diabetes. I was also disheartened to see the moderate demonization of gluten and dairy. There was a LOT of assumption that their diet fits everyone, and having investigated other eating plans and philosophies I cannot say this. What I can tell is this is a great cleansing diet, but many people would likely need to add in more fats after this period of cleansing.

Fitness was encouraging, but again many of the fitness exercises I could not do as a pregnant woman. I liked the encouragement to do what you can and build as well as doing what you enjoy doing as people are built differently. That was a good attribute of this element. I didn't see any acknowledgement of those who already work in physically strenuous jobs and recommendations to help with that. But on the whole the fitness element was well explained.

Focus was a mix of encouragement and discouragement as well. For quality health you do need focus, but they are assuming that their plan is the only one to focus on. I appreciated the section on renewing your mind, but this again only works with God as your guide changing and renewing your mind. The bit of research they shared on the brain was very interesting and good information to consider. I do 100% agree that we need to be focused on God, positive elements and thanksgiving in order to move forward with ideal health. I greatly appreciated this section as that type of research can be taboo in Christian circles.

The Friends element was probably the most discouraging of them all. Why? Because it comes at it from the assumption that this plan will work for everyone completely long term. It means that you have to have people doing this plan with you. Yes, for success we need accountability, but that means, in essence, you need people in the same place you are physically to do this with that can help you with this plan.

Again, I do think this plan has merits and I'm grateful for the five elements to help in guiding the plan, but there is too much of the "one size fits all" feel and not enough sound science or longevity to say that this is a good plan long term for everyone. There is not a whole lot of wiggle room. They also don't tell you a great way to make treats. This is sad and frustrating. Instead they simply expect you to simply say no to all of it.

They also recommend eating all day, which is contrary with other research I have done for those who are morbidly obese and struggling with diabetes. I'm sure there are some with these conditions that have had success, but is it dealing with the underlying issues? I also would love to see numbers in blood work (this is the nurse coming out in me) to see how these things are doing.

My biggest issue with this book is they base their entire plan on a paragraph of Scripture instead of the whole. They completely neglect other Old Testament and New Testament teachings in their program.

I recommend doing your own research and know where you are in your health journey. This book could be helpful in this, but remember there are many elements to consider and always seek a professional opinion.

3 stars for this daily living book.

Reading Challenges:
This book is being included in the Tim Challies 2020 Reading Challenge as a book about food or cooking in the Committed section of the challenge.

Wednesday, April 15, 2020

Our Six-Year-Old Sam


Six years.

Six years ago we welcomed our fifth child to our fold. It was a hard day after two babies that went into labor on there own with ease needing to be induced, but he was stubborn, large and needed a push.

And still to this day, our Sam is stubborn and needs a push, but he adds so much life and laughter to our home, our lives would be dull without him. He loves to laugh and joke and say the most off the wall things. He's so full of life and is not stopped by anything. Sam knows no bounds because everything seems possible to him. It is so fun to watch his adventurous spirit and we pray, by God's grace, this adventurous spirit will be molded to God's will for his life and will be used in furthering God's Kingdom!

Sam loves to learn. Math is his favorite as he loves using the blocks to figure out his problems and make fun designs. He is so creative and such a fun story teller. He enjoys drawing as well. It's a blessing to hear the many ideas he comes up with and talk with him about them. Puzzles are also fun for him and he loves to put them together. He is currently learning to read and he's getting there step by step.

With his adventurous spirit, Sam enjoys playing outside, running around being Aragorn or Bilbo or Gandalf, fighting the bad guys and winning for the good. He also loves to explore the bamboo forest in our back yard. Sword fighting with his brothers is also a cherished past time and he enjoys riding our swing car down the drive way. Sam just loves to move and be on the go. His mind is always onto the next thing and wants to see what's next. With this is a good level of fear of missing out, but he is learning to enjoy what is right in front of him little by little.

Sam's absolute favorite thing to do, though is watch movies, and his favorite movie is whatever he wants to watch at that moment. He loves the adventures of The Lord of the Rings, The Hobbit, Star Wars and Moana. He loves the humor of The Lorax and The Croods. He enjoys the lessons he learns from Fireproof and War Room. He loves it all! He just loves to watch the adventure and when he can't watch it recite it and play it out. Sam is so fun to watch as he shows his imagination and it grows in the midst of watching a myriad of movies.

Sam is an extrovert through and through. He always wants to be with someone. It's a good thing he has so many siblings so he can bounce around! The last thing he wants to be is alone. He always has something to share, something to talk about. Right now he's learning the art of listening so he can be the friend he wants others to be to him.

Sam also loves his daddy! If he could, he would be with Daddy all of the time! Sam loves to curl up in his lap and talk to him or just sit while they watch something together. It is precious to see this bond between them and how much it has developed since Sam was born.

We are still amazed at how much God uses this boy to teach us about Himself. We are so thankful for Sam and blessed to be his parents.

Father, thank You so much for the precious life of Sam! Thank You that we get to be his parents and teach him in Your ways! We ask You to turn his heart to You and save him by Your amazing unmerited grace. Take Sam's adventurous heart and give him a vision for Your great adventure. Take his love of story telling and make him a great proclaimer of Your Story, Your Word and the works that You continue to do. Thank You for these six amazing years with Sam and we pray for many many more! In Jesus's Powerful Name we pray, Amen!


Monday, April 6, 2020

North! Or Be Eaten

This second installment of the Wingfeather Saga is absolutely amazing! We read it through this time as a family and it had our older kids entranced from the beginning.

We follow the Igiby family as they flee north to the Ice Prairies away from the fangs of dang and watch them fight for their lives continuously. It is challenging to write about this book without giving away points from the first book if you have not read it, so I will not go into story line as I usually would in a book review of a story this engaging.

How would I describe it then? You see wrestling of the main characters to be who the Maker created them to be. You see team work and the detriment of trying to go it alone. You see culture clash. You see the family learning how to survive in the wild with only what they can carry with them. You see a mother's love unchanged in the face of great turmoil and heartache. You see how the sins of your past can come back to hurt not only you, but all around you, including the ones you love. You learn that you cannot hide, but you can be forgiven and still loved.

There are so many other fantastic lessons in this fantasy novel that you need to go discover for yourself. The Wingfeather Saga is not allegory, but how it delves into the depths of faith and growing in your faith as you watch these characters struggle. You learn what it means to trust the LORD even when it's hard and you don't understand what's going on around you. (A poignant lesson for what is going on in our world right now!)

I cannot recommend this book enough, but make sure to read On the Edge of the Dark Sea of Darkness before you read this one!

5 Stars for this fantasy book that goes deep!

Reading Challenges:
This book is being counted for Tim Challies's 2020 Reading Challenge in the category of A Christian Novel in the Light section of the challenge.

Thursday, April 2, 2020

Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban

I am very much enjoying reading the Harry Potter series again. The third book in this series was so much better than I even remembered.

Since I've read it before I really enjoyed seeing all the breadcrumbs left to point to things to come in the future of the story. This book had me laughing out loud regularly and made me wonder where they got the movie from!

Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban tells us more information about Harry, his parents and their tragic death. We learn more of the crazy world of wizards as well and how they use the powers of their world to help those in trouble.

On the whole I really enjoyed this book. I do think this book needs to be reserved for middle school and up because of the increasing darkness and the tragic circumstances that we learn about Harry's family and death. With these things come excellent talking points to learn how to deal with tragedy, how to investigate and not taking for granted that you know the truth about people or circumstances.

There is a little bit of language and the clear attitude of Harry feeling invincible. There is disrespect to authority that they do not like. There is a clear story line of revenge that needs to be discussed from a Biblical standpoint. None of this takes away from the heart of the story and how much you can learn from it.

I give this book 4.5 stars!

Reading Challenges:
This is my third book in Three Books by the Same Author in The Modern Mrs. Darcy 2020 Reading Challenge.
In the Tim Challies 2020 Reading Challenge I'm using it as a book of my choice in the Avid section of the challenge.